Dating Rules Are Hard

Important question. How creepy is it if I get involved with a 19-year-old at age almost-31?

The standard rule says my lower limit is like 22yo.

But also the trans dating pool is significantly smaller and not normally distributed.

And she is cute and friendly and...

IDK. I should have checked her age before starting down the path of inviting her to meet in person in December when she is home from college.

I probably should just cut it off now. Good sign it is creepy if I am trying to justify it.

Feh.